How did I never notice?

David Choi appreciation post.

We're supposed to be happy and the Christmas song are my favourite!

Taking action!

After I had breakfast, I went into my room to get changed for uni. Slipped my jeans on... Sorry, did I say slipped? I should really say that I struggled to pull dem skinnies up.

I looked at my reflection and decided then and there that I would go to the gym today.

Im on the bus now and I just realised I forgot to bring socks.


So not winning in life.

Bad dreams and real life

I had a dream that one of my friends snitched on me for bitching about our mutual friend.

I woke up feeling pissed off, went to uni, saw her and hated on her for a bit.

A few things I learned from this:
- I actually feel guilty for being a little bitchy.
- regardless of whether the situation is real or not, my emotions are very intact. I am not a very rational person when emotions come into play.

Only when someone asked if we had beef, I realised how ridiculous it all was. Told her what happened in my dream and she loled, said "you know I'd never do that to you". Even though I got over it on the surface, I can't help but be wary of her now. Just to be safe.

Kinda feel bad for her now. It's all my fault ;D

they know how to party

Harroo

Last night I went to my friend, M's 21st birthday party. It was mostly family/friends and a lot of the speeches were in Punjabi.  I spent most of my night listening to a newly made friend translate for me (I was the only asian person there).

I told my parents that when I came home and they asked me "weren't you bored?"

THE ANSWER IS NO WAY.

These people know how to party. After the speeches/video/dance presentations were done (4 hours later hahaha so many people), they opened up the dance floor (to be known as the "DF" from here onwards) and EVERYONE, young, old and awkward scrambled eagerly towards the wide open space to boogey the night away. The older generations totally ripped the DF to shreds man. This would never happen at an Asian family gathering.

Maybe it's just M's family and friends, but they are so close. I wish my whole extended family/friends were this close. Big families are so awesome. In the future, I'm gonna try to convince K to have lots of kids. It's gonna be great.

It was really funny when I was talking to one of the girls about how complicated/intermingled their relationships are. She was saying something about her cousin being married to the son of the couple sitting behind us - who happen to be related (somehow) to M.

But yeah, going back to my original point - my parents don't know how to have fun in comparison.  If we're at karaoke, D will not sing. D will stare longingly at the scrolling lyrics on the screen, but he will not sing.

If D was a Chinese woman in 1940, he might have made a very good bride. He has a straight nose, small lips, round face, long legs, super conservative views and he's very poised. Part of being poised and presentable is achieved by doing the following: not engaging in any embarrassing activities, such as singing at karaoke and dancing at parties, not smiling with teeth showing in photos and laughing in a very dignified way.

It was annoying wearing a sari though. Even though it's super pretty, it's a bitch to keep in place (the drapey stuff slung over your shoulder) and it gets kinda hot inside.

But even so, I loved it. HAHA. Sequins and sparkly shit rock my socks.

IM IN A SARI

Oh yeah. Getting my groove on tonight.